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mmerriam ([personal profile] mmerriam) wrote2009-09-28 10:27 am
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Ten Years

Ten years ago today, [livejournal.com profile] careswen and I arrived in Minnesota, all of our worldly possession in a 36-foot Ryder truck, our car on the trailer behind it.

I had been working at Storm Lures as their shipping manager, and we were bought out by Rapala Lures. They offered to transfer me to Minnesota, but didn't offer enough pay to make the move worthwhile. Instead, I took the severance package, which turned out to be six-months pay. [livejournal.com profile] careswen had finished her degree at the University of Oklahoma, and we were looking for a major change. We considered several possible placed to move to, and chose Minneapolis because it had everything we wanted in amenities (parks, theatres, arts, music, museums, etc), low unemployment, a modest cost-of-living, and real winters.

When we arrived, we knew three people: my aunt and uncle, and a former co-worker (who later moved back to Oklahoma). We had six months worth of savings and no jobs. Most everyone back in Oklahoma thought we were making a mistake; that we’d be slinking back to Oklahoma and our families within six months. They tried to discourage us from moving so far away.

They obviously had no idea who they were dealing with. There were some difficult moments in the beginning, and there have been some challenges since, but neither of us has ever regretted moving here. It is, we think, one of smartest decisions we ever made, second only to getting married (another decision many back in OK thought was a bad idea).

Ten years later, we own a home, have careers and a future, have made many wonderful friends, and cannot imagine living anywhere but Minnesota.

As I look out my patio door on this chilly autumn day, I have to say I've come to love living here. May we have many more happy years in Minnesota, in this charming little city of Hopkins.

[identity profile] minnehaha.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 03:47 pm (UTC)(link)
:-)

K.

[identity profile] ckastens.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 03:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Wonderful post. Congrats on a very successful decade, and more to come!
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[personal profile] aedifica 2009-09-28 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Glad you both are here!
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[personal profile] ckd 2009-09-28 04:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm very glad you've found Minnesota to be "home". May you have many more happy years there.
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[personal profile] pameladean 2009-09-28 04:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Minnesota loves you too! Well, my bit of it does.

P.
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[identity profile] buymeaclue.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy anniversary!

[identity profile] jongibbs.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
There are lots of important ingredients in a happy life. I don't pretend to know them all, but I imagine living in a place where you feel at home is pretty high up on the list :)

[identity profile] maryjdal.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Nice post - Congrats.

[identity profile] brithistorian.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you're here and happy to be here.

[identity profile] jdawson001.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 06:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I can appreciate your situation back then. I quit my job and moved 1600 miles from Omaha, NE to Macon, GA with only two months worth of savings and no job prospects. Scary decision, but I needed a change (and warmth).

I met the most wonderful man there, found a beautiful house to rent, and landed a job that I loved. Eighteen months later we got married and we decided to have a baby. We've had to move away from the state we both love (he's military) but I'll never regret leaving one life behind and venturing into the unknown.

I'm so glad your move worked out for you, too.

Jenn

[identity profile] mylefteye.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy tenth anniversary Mike and Careswen!

[identity profile] theperfumer.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm three years behind you. I still recall one particularly dark winter when a former friend asked me when I was going to pick up and move as though we had discussed it and it was a foregone conclusion.

We're both still here. But I really should have punched him. Minneapolis is a tough city in some ways, but it definitely rewards you well for sticking it out.

Glad you're here!

[identity profile] dmbaird.livejournal.com 2009-09-28 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Ten years later, and life is good. How cool is that?
I know I'm happy you two have made MN your home. Here's to many more years in the Northland!

[identity profile] williamofoccam.livejournal.com 2009-09-30 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Minnesota loves you back. We're glad you're here.